Golf Fore Africa's Women's Trip to Zambia, May 2015

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Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Day 5: Kapululwe and Sponsor Children

Rarely are those that sponsor a child through World Vision, living across the world, fortunate enough to ever get to meet them. In spite of distance and communication barriers, Carol, Debbie, Betsy, Beth, Ashley, Jessica and Lori had the opportunity to meet their sponsor children today, who, only weeks ago, seemed worlds away. What was at one time just a photograph of a precious face that came in the mail, became a hug, a smile, a giggle, a true gift, and a reality face-to-face. These are some of the photos and words from each sponsor about their experiences meeting their sponsor child for the first time:

Ashley meeting Ruth
"My visit with Ruth was incredible. We picked her up from school and she at first was very shy as she doesn't speak a lot of English. But her face... oh that sweet face... was so warm, welcoming and her eyes were alive. I immediately knew she was meant for me. After a few minutes at her home we pulled out the soccer ball and that's where we bonded. Her little cousins joined and it was Ruth and me against the boys. We made a great team; giving each other high fives and always finding the open pass to each other. It was priceless. When we sat down after soccer I noticed she sat a little closer to me. She even leaned up against me in the most comfortable way. We gave the bike to Ruth which put the biggest smile on her face. I couldn't have asked for a better experience and I feel so privileged to be a part of her beautiful and bright future!"






Beth meeting Grace
See Beth's incredible reflection with photos in the previous two posts.


Betsy meeting Anford
"Today I had the wonderful experience of meeting my sponsored child. Anford is almost three years old. When I arrived at his home he was like most children his age when meeting a stranger somewhat scared. He began crying and sought the comfort of his mother. I met Anford's mom, Elizabeth and his two older brothers, Nelson and Dexter. As we sat and talked we began to connect, particularly when we opened a few toys I had brought for Anford. His favorite gift was a soccer ball which we played with outside along with his brothers.  The simple act of hitting a soccer ball together proved to be the activity that crossed all cultural differences. 
I will be praying for Anford and his family. May God bless them, and keep them safe." 



Carol meeting Belita
"Over the years, as my parents sponsored many children through World Vision, I often wondered if they even existed.  I can now tell you that these children are not only real but that we can truly make a difference in their lives and communities.  Today, I visited my sponsored child, Belita, and her family in a small village in Kapululwe, Zambia.  Upon arriving, I was taken aback by the extreme poverty that most of us cannot imagine - no running water, dirt floors and a single room housing a family of nine.  But I immediately felt their warmth, vibrancy and richness in spirit,   I left knowing that Belita and I would help one another experience the fullness of life."




Debbie and Amanda meeting Anna and Caro
"Today I was reminded why I believe in World Vision and the work we are doing to support children in Africa. Amanda and I had the chance to visit two sponsored children today in the Kapululwe ADP. 

The first visit was to see Anna and her family. Anna is a quiet girl with hardworking parents that are rural farmers. Irene, Anna's mom, is a strong, feisty woman that was excited to show us her home and maize crop. We sat together on a mat under a tree talking about our families and getting to know each other. It was very apparent that they love Anna and her four siblings. They were full of complete joy and gratitude for our visit. 



Our next visit was to meet Caro, a 4-year-old girl that had just joined child sponsorship but was not yet sponsored, living with relatives away from her mother. The sadness of her eyes troubled me. Amanda tried very hard to make her smile and laugh, reading her stories and talking like Sesame Street characters. No emotion--she just sat rubbing the fur on the brown bear we brought her with her head down. Her aunt, loud and intense, continually pressured her to say thank you in an aggressive manner. Caro was left with family who did not seem to recognize her need for quiet love, maybe someone to listen.


We left feeling disturbed that Caro seemed so alone and so vulnerable. Tears welled in my eyes as I recognized, that more than anyone, this little girl needs support, someone to say I care about you and believe in you. That was when Amanda decided to become her sponsor, so that she will be given a better chance and feel like someone supports her and wants her to thrive."

Jessica meeting Gertrude
"I have always dreamed of meeting my sponsor children. My husband and I have sponsored children through World Vision for the past 15 years and today was my first time meeting one of them in person. I was so excited to meet little 4-year-old Gertrude here in Zambia but I was warned by World Vision that she can be especially shy and a bit difficult to connect with. I was disappointed to hear this but appreciative of the warning so I could lower my expectations and not take the situation personally.  I was hopeful that I could break through to her as I also have a 4-year-old at home who can be shy and willful when he wants to be! Perhaps that's exactly why God put Gertrude and I together. Although she had moments of challenging behavior we truly bonded and had a wonderful visit. We played with dolls, balls and colored together. I knew we had made a special connection when she touched my face and kissed my cheeks several times. The highlight of the visit was going with her to see the well that World Vision built in her village. Her family now has access to clean water...this is life changing for them and especially so for Gertrude and the other girls in her village. In many African cultures, the girls are tasked with fetching the water each day for their family. This often means walking long distances to collect water, water that is often dirty and disease-infested. This also means many girls miss going to school and therefore have their futures stifled. To see the joy on Gertrude's face as she ably pumped the clean well water and to know that she will now be able to get an education was truly a heartwarming sight!"




Lori meeting Dana
"Today was a special day. I was blessed to be able to visit my sponsor child Dana Shiyala, a shy little three-year-old. She lives with her parents and two sisters in a brick and mud home with a thatched roof. Dana was timid when I met her, but after talking to her and her mother and father through the world vision interpreter Irene, Dana relaxed and became a typical three year old girl.  I sang Dana a lullaby that my mother would sing to my brothers and me before going to bed. She enjoyed it and we shared a very special moment. 
Gifts were brought into the room and Dana's favorites were a soccer ball and a stuffed animal. We were also blessed to deliver a special gift to the family from World Vision: a mosquito net and durable bike, suitable for the rough terrain. This bike will greatly improve their standard of living enabling them to spend less time going to market and allowing them to transport sick family members to the hospital. The family was so excited. I will never forget this day."







Day 5 Reflection from Beth - Amazing Grace

My life was transformed today.  Everything I see through my eyes, I see in a different way.  I will not take anything, and I mean anything, in my life for granted ever again.  I have felt joy and happiness that is hard for me to fully express.

Today I met Grace Simba (age 4), my sponsored child through World Vision.

I met her family - her father, Nelson, her mother, Elizabeth, her sisters, Joyce (age 18), Tracy (age 9) and Esther (2 weeks).  Grace was very shy at first.  The ball I brought was a no go.  So I gave her a bright yellow Care Bear.  That was the ticket.  Gr
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ce gave me her hand and a flicker of a smile.  Then she ran her hand along my hair, her eyes big and dazzling, as she took in that her sponsor was really there.  From that moment on, we held hands, we 
are eternally ​
connected.  

I sat in a chair outside the family hut and lifted Grace into my lap.  I talked with her parents about their life.  Nelson is a teacher, Elizabeth will go back to school after weaning Esther.  Elizabeth is going to be a teacher as well
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Robin McInnis was with me today. Robin took amazing videos and photographs.  Robin asked if we could see their water source.  We walked to the village bore hole (this is their well).  It was approximately 500 meters away, walking on a deeply rutted trail.  As Grace and I walked together, I asked if I could sing.  She shyly nodded yes.  We had an interpreter from World Vision, Thabita.  I sang and marched to "Oh When the Saints Go Marching In".  Thabita leads her church choir so she harmonized with me.  Then we sang "Jesus Love Me" and "Do Lord".

When we reached the bore hole, Grace showed me how to pump water and let me help her.  Then I carried the bucket of water the 500 meters back to their huts. The members of the family carry a larger bucket of water 3 times per day.  They balance the bucket on their head with no use of hands as they walk.  I put the bucket on my head and water spilled out like it was raining.  I could not let go.  Everyone had a hearty laugh at me.

After walking back, Grace and her family showed me their 3 huts.  One hut was just for cooking, there was a place for the fire with a grate and a chicken was in a nest laying an egg.  I held Esther and Thabita took pictures of all the sisters with me.  I will post those pictures later.  Then we visited the 2 sleeping huts.  The huts are round, made of mud and brick with a thatched roof.  Nelson built the huts himself.  He put a plastic covering between the thatch roof and the beams, not for rain but to keep the loose thatch from falling in the hut.  Joyce and Tracy sleep in a single bed in one hut. In the main hut, Nelson, Elizabeth, Grace and Esther sleep in a bed slightly bigger than a twin bed.

We sat down again outside and Golf Fore Africa had sent a bicycle to be presented to the family.  The look on their faces at the sight of their own bicycle - priceless.  I gave Grace and the family different gifts I had brought them.  Grace's favorite was a small Slinky.  She also loved a music book that had a small keyboard attached.  The book has color coded music to match the keys to teach her piano.  I gave the family 3 Unite-to-Light solar reading lights.  They have no electricity so these will come in handy.  My husband, Bill, sent Nelson a roll of duct tape.  He was very amazed at this present and I'm sure he will find many uses for it just as Bill does.  I gave Nelson a Arizona Diamondback shirt and he immediately put it on.

Grace gave me several drawings she made for me.  She said she wants to become a doctor so I started shaking her hand and calling her Dr. Grace.

Grace sang for me - The Zambian National Anthem.  I could tell she had been practicing.  Fred Mazumba - Kapululwe ADP Manager, picked out the notes of the anthem on the keyboard.  The entire family sang the Anthem again.  It was beautiful.

The final surprise of the day was next.  The family presented me with baskets of fruit and vegetables.  And then - A LIVE CHICKEN!!!!  I have never held A LIVE CHICKEN before but I did and we posed for family pictures.  We took the chicken with us when we left but I'm not sure Air France will let me bring it back to the U.S.A.

Nelson and Elizabeth were so gracious and appreciative, saying thank you over and over as we said goodbye.  Grace and I hugged and kissed each others' cheeks.  As we drove away, I put my hands to my mouth and blew them a kiss.

Tears flowed out of my eyes for a while as I sat and reflected on these precious moments that had just occurred in my life.  As I said before, I Am Transformed.  My soul is refreshed and renewed.  I will take time to comprehend this day but I wanted to share with you right away this amazing special day.  God was present in every way.  

Love, 

Beth Young Moore

See next 2 posts for photos